My children have just spent the half term with their dad and came home this weekend. My 14 yr old son was very quiet which was a bit odd, he's normally pretty chatty, I just put it down to being a teen or missing his dad. But then I overheard him talking to my 11 yr old daughter about me. He said he didn't want to talk to me after what I did to dad. I could see she looked sad and uncomfortable about the conversation, so I walked in the room and asked what exactly I had done to his dad. He told me taht he knew everything and it was my fault his dad wasn't around because I had cheated on his dad! Shocked was not the word!! (this is a total lie btw!) I couldn't believe my ears, he was the one who cheated on me many time and he was emotionally abusive. He took away all my confidence and convinced me no one else would want me. I have only just started to feel better about myself since we split and I moved to France. Yet dispite my hatred for him I have never allowed myself to bad mout...